Why are Emotional Bliss intimate massagers different?

Emotional Bliss were originally inspired to create a visually beautiful collection of massagers that would appeal to all women. We now offer a range of products that incorporate all the elements of design and function that are important to women when selecting an intimate massager.

Working with sex therapist Julia Cole, Relate (UK’s most renown relationship counseling and sex therapy organisation) and the BASRT (The British Association for Sexual and Relationship Therapy), we set out to create a range of intimate massagers that not only look good but also provide users with what they want - a shape that compliments the female form, texture which is realistically soft and close to the feel of skin, and above all a product that helps a woman acheive orgasm.

Emotional Bliss products are equipped with nine vibration patterns, varying in speeds to suit your emotion. In addition, our products are rechargeable and come in a range of relaxing colours. Emotional Bliss massagers are the ONLY massagers on the market that contain an antibacterial agent. Wiping with water allows the product to become sterile and ready for use again.

How is my order dispatched?

We want to ensure service is of the highest quality for each and every one of our customers. By working with UPS and DHL we believe our customers receive a superior service that they deserve and it also ensures that products do not get lost in transit.

All UK customers are guaranteed delivery within 48 hours from when the order is placed and European orders will take no longer than 48-72 hours to be dispatched. You will receive via email your tracker reference number once your order has been dispatched.

Phone Orders

To place an order over telephone, you can contact us Monday – Friday, 8am to 10pm, Saturday and Sunday, 9am to 5-30pm. You will be given a unique order reference number. Calling from the UK : 0870 041 00 22 Calling from outside of the UK : +44 870 41 00 22

Payment

You can purchase our products through a variety of methods including switch, credit card, cheque and postal order. If paying by cheque, payment must be made to “Emotional Bliss” for the full amount as on your invoice. In order to process your order, payment must be received within 5 working days. If payment is not received within this period, the order will be deleted for security reasons. If you have any queries regarding your payment, please contact us. Payment is accepted in GB pounds (£), US ($) and Euros (€) depending on where you would like your order to be delivered.

Vouchers and Promotional Codes

If you are purchasing an Emotional Bliss product as a gift and are not sure which product to select, you have the option to buy a voucher instead. This option enables you to add a personalized message, which will appear when the voucher is used. If you have a promotional code, you can enter this when making your purchase. The discount will then be subtracted off the final amount.

Security

We have taken every precaution to safeguard the security of your personal details, by using the industry banking standard SSL encryption for collecting and transferring credit card information and other sensitive data. We also use a software platform known as aspx enabling only the last 4 digits of your credit card, Start Date and Expiry Date to be visible to Emotional Bliss. No other person will have access to your credit card information other than you, your and our bank.

Returning Your Goods

Returns Due to Product Defect

If any item is faulty when it arrives or breaks down within a year of the purchase date, we will either replace your product or provide you with a credit note for the original purchase (excluding tax, shipping and handling).

Returns Due to Customer Dissatisfaction

If you are unhappy with your purchase for any reason, please contact us within 30 days of receipt of your order. We will either issue a credit for the cost of the item or replace it with another item of equal value. We want you to be happy with our products, so even if you bought something from us more than a year ago, we might be able to help. Simply email us and we’ll see what we can do. We will not refund any Emotional Bliss intimate massager/s if they have been used and found to be working satisfactorily. No goods delivered to you which are in accordance with the agreement and guarantees will be accepted for return by us without our prior written approval (in accordance with our returns authorization procedure) and on terms to be determined at our absolute discretion. If we agree to accept any such goods for return you shall be liable to pay a handling charge of (25%) of the invoice price. Such goods must be returned by you to us with postage paid and in the original packaging. Goods which are in accordance with the agreement and are returned without our prior written approval may, at our absolute discretion, be returned to you or stored at your cost without prejudice to any other rights or remedies we may have. Emotionalbliss.com is not responsible for refunds or replacement shipments providing the courier tracking system confirms the delivery has been made. If the courier tracker number shows a package has been delivered, but you have not received your order, then please contact us. If a package cannot be delivered for any reason, Emotional Bliss will refund your credit card for the product purchased; courier charges will still apply.

Requesting a Return

To find out about returning a product, contact us and provide your name, your unique reference order number and brief description of the problem encountered. We will then send you instructions on how to return your package. Please note that we cannot refund or credit your account until we have received your returned order. Credit card refunds may take a month to appear on your statement. Customers are responsible for postage and packaging on all returned items. We of course never resell returned products.

The Emotional Bliss Guarantee

At Emotional Bliss we will do everything in our power to provide our customers with the highest quality of products and service. If, for any reason you are not happy with your product we will either exchange for another Emotional Bliss intimate massager or credit in full (excluding courier charge).

You can be guaranteed:

  • Our products are made from ABS and TPE which is a safe medical grade material
  • When we say quality, you can be assured that each EB intimate massager has been carefully manufactured, meeting stringent safety and quality checks before it is available for purchase.
  • Made in the UK, East Yorkshire to be exact. We follow ethical business guidelines and our fully trained team takes pride in manufacturing our high quality products.
  • CE certificated; you can be assured we comply with all the requirements of the European Union (EU) directives.
  • Environmentally friendly; we only use environmentally friendly rechargeable batteries along with 100% recyclable components.

Made in the UK

We pride ourselves on high production values ensuring your absolute satisfaction at all times. Unlike other large volume manufacturers we do not produce in China or the Far East purely because by manufacturing here in the UK we can easily maintain, control and more importantly guarantee our high levels of quality, manufacture and materials.

 

The Variety of Stimulating Sensations

 

1: Stroking and Caressing

 

Stroking and caressing is usually carried out by using the flat of the hand in long strokes along the back, legs, breasts, stomach and shoulders. It is also arousing to have the face and hands stroked gently with light caresses. To further improve the stimulating sensation of stroking, loosely wrap a silk scarf around your hand before caressing your partner or use a soft brush to gently caress his or her body. If you or your partner has long hair, trailing hair slowly over your partner’s body can be highly arousing. Use your mouth and lips to caress your partner. Light kisses and soft licking over all parts of the body is highly stimulating. Stroking and caressing usually takes place at the start of lovemaking and can last from ten minutes to half an hour, or for as long as you both enjoy the sensations.

 

2: Massage

 

Massage requires a firm touch during which you should use your hands to not only caress your partner’s body but to manipulate the muscles beneath the skin. Massage can also be used in a non-sexual setting to relax and ease tired muscles. During love making it can add to arousal because it helps both of you to relax and feel ready for sex. Ideally, you should take turns to massage each other. The back and shoulders are a good place to start, but upper arms and legs can also benefit from massage techniques. Use good quality massage oil to help the hands slide over the skin without dragging. Massage is a good technique at the start of lovemaking. It can help you both to feel ready to enjoy the sexual experience. Massage is best given when there is plenty of time to undertake it – at least thirty minutes.

 

3: Kneading

 

Kneading is a form of touch that is stronger and firmer than massage. Usually the hands are semi-clenched to allow use of the knuckles and fingers to press into the muscles – usually on the back and buttocks. (Be careful - this technique can be painful if carried out incorrectly.) Used on the shoulders and neck it can help knotted muscles to relax. Always ask your partner if they want this kind of touching. Kneading can be a part of massage, or a separate form of touching, during the mid stage of lovemaking. It should last not much more than ten minutes as the sensation can be painful if carried on for too long.

 

4: Rubbing and circling

 

A rubbing action can often be very stimulating, especially if used with massage lotion or lubricant. Use the flat of the hand to rub in a circular fashion on the buttocks and thighs, breasts and back to produce a tingling sensation. Care should be taken not to press to hard so that the rubbing becomes uncomfortable.

 

Rubbing is also extremely stimulating if used on the penis. A light, but firm grip of fingers around the penis is usually very arousing for men. Use a good quality lubricant to help your hand slide up and down the length of the penis without dragging the foreskin uncomfortably. Using plenty of lubricant, gently circle the head of the penis, paying special attention to the frenulum (in uncircumcised men), which is usually highly stimulating.

 

Circling can be very arousing for women. Once you are sure that the vaginal lips are well lubricated run a finger along one side of the vaginal lips, around the clitoris and down the other side of the vaginal lips. Once fully stimulated, a circular motion around the area of the clitoris can be very exciting. Be wary of circling or rubbing directly on the clitoris as this can be uncomfortable when a woman is highly aroused.

 

Rubbing and circling should be used during the mid to later stages of lovemaking and should last as long as both of you feel comfortable with it.

 

5: Tickling or teasing

 

Although tickling or teasing touch can be annoying at other times, during a sexual encounter it can add to a stimulating experience if used carefully and with understanding. Intense stimulation, alternated with gentle fingertip touching and brushing of the genitals, can be extremely arousing. This approach can help to make lovemaking long lasting. The variation between strong arousal and gentle touching can delay orgasm until both of you are ready to reach a climax.

 

Gentle tapping on the clitoral area or the head of the penis, or soft flicking with the tongue on the tip of the penis or clitoris, can be teasingly arousing. Stroking that is light and teasing can also be arousing as it allows the person receiving the touch to want more intense and satisfying touch and arousal. Alternating firm stroking of the thighs and back with lighter, less intense, touching can improve sexual responsiveness and desire during lovemaking. Teasing and tickling should be part of mid and later stages of lovemaking and used for short periods of time (three to five minutes) to the taste of both of you.

 

6: Patting and smacking

 

Patting can be gently arousing, especially if concentrated on the buttocks and genital area. Soft rhythmic patting on the vaginal area at the start of lovemaking (and light, firm squeezing of the whole vulval area) can be enjoyable at the beginning of sex. Some men also like their testicles to be patted, but this must be done gently to avoid any discomfort. Gently patting of the clitoral area can be arousing because it introduces a teasing quality that many women enjoy in lovemaking. It can help if the woman holds the man’s hand while he pats the vaginal lips and clitoris so he understands how firm a touch she desires.

 

Smacking can also be arousing, but should be undertaken with caution and only with the agreement of your partner. Using the palm of the hand, men and women often enjoy having the buttocks smacked during sex. Three or four reasonably hard smacks to each buttock is probably enough for most people before the experience becomes painful rather than fun. Each of you should take the lead from your partner, and only carry on for as long as it seems enjoyable. It is also possible to use the flat back of a hairbrush, a small cane (the kind that support plants can be useful), a ruler or a piece of stiff cardboard to smack a partner. But this must be done with care and consideration for their personal pain level. Patting can be used in the mid lovemaking stage, while smacking should be saved for late stage arousal. The couple should determine the length of time for both.

 

7: Licking and biting

 

The mouth is next only to the genital area in having lots of nerve endings that can supply and receive pleasure. Kissing, licking and biting can all be stimulating and arousing during sex play. Slow licking of the thighs, buttocks, breasts and genitals can be extremely arousing. Slow and circling licking of the nipples and inner thighs can be good at the start of lovemaking, followed by more intense licking along the length of the penis or vaginal lips. The neck and ears are also highly responsive when licked or kissed and can add to early arousal while your partner caresses other parts of the body.

 

Some couples also enjoy biting, although it is important to avoid breaking the skin in case of bleeding. This is because AIDS and other infections can be passed through contact with infected blood. Gentle biting or nibbling that does not break the skin is OK and can be arousing on the buttocks and neck. Love bites (sometimes called ‘hickies’) should be avoided, as there is a danger of infection from raising the blood to the skin, which then causes a bruise. (Blood can sometimes pass from the surface of the skin into the mouth during the giving of the love bite.)

 

Licking can be very intense during oral sex so the couple should discuss the length of time spent on this. Biting should be kept to a minimum, and only used in circumstances where you feel completely safe.

 

8: Pinching

 

Most people would say that pinching is not enjoyable in normal circumstances, but during sex pinching can be stimulating for some couples. You may find that light pinching of the nipples is arousing for some people, although others find it too painful to be stimulating. Pinching can also be stimulating on the buttocks or thighs. Care should be taken to pinch areas of the body where there is plenty of flesh as this will be more arousing and less painful than if pinching takes place on less fleshy areas (such as the wrists and shins). Pinching should be used as part of a much wider repertoire of touching, as it can be extremely uncomfortable if used without other kinds of caresses. Before attempting pinching, ask your partner how they feel about this kind of arousal.

 

The couple should determine the amount of pinching during sex. Any prolonged pinching of nipples or flesh should be avoided – no more than a few seconds – or the skin could be damaged, especially in the sensitive breast area.